The Hidden Secret of Elegance

Is there someone you secretly admire? 

Have you ever wondered what makes this person consistently stand out when they walk into a room? Perhaps you often observe their soigné appearance, revere their choice of clothing, applaud their remarkable ability to connect deeply with others, or even their casual dexterity. 

From my childhood, I dreamt of becoming this person. My dream included living out true beauty, authenticity, grace, poise, warmth, love, eloquence, and the like. I quickly identified with and admired anyone who lived out these virtues and owned their imperfections. I desired to be notable and extraordinary. I imagine I am not alone, and you feel the same way.

I grew up in a modest-income family in Lagos, Nigeria. Our everyday living was far from affluence. Fancy clothing wasn't the norm, but we did have our daily essentials. Frankly, I thought I would never live out my "elegant dream." I was wrong.

Often, we mentally limit and associate Elegance with affluence. My years of study and research unveiled the truth. Surprisingly, Elegance has no barrier. However, Elegance has a hidden secret.

May I share?